Grumpy Not Frumpy - Subtle leopard chic

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Handpicked fashion for women who want to age disgracefully. Thou shalt not disappear into beige cardigans just because the menopause is tapping you on the shoulder. Fun, flattering clothes for hormonal ladies of a feral disposition. Be gone nanna wardrobe, hot flushes and hot wardrobe pending!

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Alreet...

I'm Kathryn — tattooist, fellow brain fog sufferer, and the woman behind Grumpy Not Frumpy.

I spend my days chatting to brilliant women — the ones who are navigating perimenopause and the ones who are in the full grasp of that wicked beast. Women wondering why their body suddenly has opinions and why their minds just utterly can't be arsed. Well just listen here ladies, you may be a hot mess, but you need to own that shit. I will not have you dressing drab, I'm here to help you dress fab. I've curated pieces that will brighten your wardrobe and brighten your mood.

This shop exists because getting older doesn't mean getting boring. We can still dress bold, have fun, and look absolutely bloody gorge — even on the days we're running on no sleep.

Grumpy Not Frumpy is for women who aren't ready to fade into the background. Welcome sweaty soul sisters, you're in the right place 🖤

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Having a midlife crisis and want a tattoo?

I'm a tattooist based at Twin Ink in Leigh, near Wigan in Greater Manchester. Click the link to have a nosey!